
WHY ARE INDEPENDENT WOMEN SCARED MEN?
Most men are afraid of successful women because a typical African man wants a woman who is always available, who won’t question his opinions and actions. Even if he cheats on her, she won’t dare question him. A woman who will do the housework alone and always say « Yes, sir. »
For most African men, money is their bargaining power in a relationship. The ability to provide for a woman gives him that sense of control and power. Thus, dealing with a woman who can provide for him can be difficult for a man who has nothing to offer in a relationship except money.
A successful woman demands more than money. Normally, a simple woman might demand just money, but a successful woman doesn’t demand money; she demands responsibility, loyalty, respect for her opinions, and shared responsibilities.
Her standards are higher, and an insecure man may not meet her demands. However, it’s true that some independent women can be proud. But the truth is, when they finally meet the right man, they submit. I mean, when they meet a man who can offer value beyond money by loving and protecting them, submission comes naturally.