
PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIAGE WHAT TO DO???
Between regret, fear, and guilt, nothing is easy about getting pregnant before marriage when you’re a church worker, a devout Christian, and often full of values and morals.
Challenged daily by the messages of sanctification and the purity of one’s body, then finding yourself pregnant one day because you’ve allowed yourself to be distracted by the lust of the flesh is one of the most difficult situations a Christian can face.
However, everything we feel deep down is not only because of the sin we’ve committed, but also because of what others will say: What will the family say? What will the church say? It is because of these issues that some have chosen to resort to abortion to save face,
some have fled the church to the point of sinking even deeper into cohabitation and sin…
Listen to me, young girl,
Whatever the motivations that led you to fall to the point of carrying this pregnancy,
Get up! It is never too late to make amends with God, humble yourself before His face,
implore His grace, and continue on your path with Him.
Whatever the pressure from your family, your boyfriend, or the church, never have an abortion!
Don’t let people make you make any more mistakes.
People talk and will always talk; the consequences of abortion are yours alone to bear.
You can lie to men by discreetly passing off this pregnancy, but before God, you are a sinner.
Sins attract other sins, you see? Only you can break this cycle of sin by deciding to own up to your mistakes.
Never force this man to marry you just to hide your pregnancy!
In marriage, you won’t face the realities that might make you regret your decision.
Go and sin no more! Now that you’ve suffered the consequences of your actions, don’t do it again.
It’s possible to remain chaste even after having a child.
History will remember that you sinned, but let the one who has never sinned throw a stone at you.
Forgive yourself, and move on! With or without the father of your child, the future still has much to offer you.
Straighten up! Courage, my daughter.