LOVE MEANS…

Part 1
1. Forgive before apologies are made
2. Apologise when you’re wrong because hurting your partner hurts you
3. Hold each other tight when no words can be said
4. Share a meal because food brings people together
5. Kiss more than just the lips; kiss the forehead, shoulders, fingers, neck, and cheek
6. Say « I love you » in the middle of an argument to remind each other that what you have is greater than the fight
7. Start the day with « good morning » because it’s a blessing to experience a new day together.
As a wife, never forget to greet your husband in dialect.
Call each other sweet names, like my Finewine, tomato, banana, iPhone, wonderland, etc.
8. Call your loved one on the phone in the middle of the day to make them smile.
You could also send romantic messages. 9. Hugging each other while looking in the mirror and seeing « The World’s Cutest Couple. »
Call each other « World’s Best Couple. »
10. Planning a surprise to brighten your loved one’s day.
Doing something special to make them smile.
Have code words or a language together.

Part 2
11. Taking pictures of the two of you to add to your love album and cherish the moments.
12. Getting silly; dancing, laughing, teasing each other because you are free.
13. Listening when one of you speaks, you should feel heard.
14. Praying together even in good times and bad, learning to give thanks.
Prayer humbles you to love.
15. Falling asleep in the middle of a late-night conversation and then waking up to continue.
16. Asking your loved one for help even when you can do it alone.
17. Analyzing yourself to see any wrongdoing in yourself before accusing your loved one.
18. Bumping into each other while you walk because you are so comfortable together.
19. Laughing at each other, not at each other.

Part 3
20. Wiping her tears, soothing her fears
21. I enjoy turning down other suitors because you are faithful to your one true self.
22. Make sure every argument ends before another day arrives.
In fact, end it right away. It will heal your heart, your life, your marriage, your destiny, your business.
23. Bathe each other. Bathe together.
24. Deliberately help each other help your marriage to function and be healthy.
25. Never expose your partner to your relationships.
Don’t tell lies against your spouse to appear heroic in front of your relationships.
You may forgive, but they wouldn’t forget.
They would never be willing to apologize for the wrongs they’ve done and the « goat » they’ve played. This could slowly but surely end your marriage.
26. Never lose your spouse’s trust.
27. Prepare for electrifying lovemaking.
Some forms of lovemaking should take you both to heaven
where you both scream for ice cream as your climax.
Part 4
28. Remember, lovemaking isn’t about satisfying yourself, it’s about satisfying your partner first.
There’s nothing like making love in marriage.
It tastes like spicy banga turtle soup with dry fish and okro.
Don’t be afraid to try new skills or styles.
Notice which ones your partner enjoys the most and give them the amount they desire.
If it hurts your partner, it would hurt you too. Make sure there’s cool background music, fruit, water, cutlets, wine, and a cool, comfortable, well-ventilated room.
29. Sexual pleasure lies in the flexibility of your legs during lovemaking.
If you don’t know, you’d better ask someone.