
DEAR SINGLE BROTHER
4 THINGS MORE VALUABLE THAN A WOMAN’S BODY
Here are 4 things that will matter more to any man after marriage than those that naturally attract men to women.
1) PEACE OF MIND
After seeing beauty, before marrying a woman, also check if she has the ability to bring you peace of mind.
Today, some married men don’t stay at home because of the type of woman they married.
They prefer to sleep at the office or at a friend’s house because they married a fighter at home.
Oga, I know she has BIG BREASTS, but can she give you BIG REST?
Don’t marry a woman who will send you to your early grave with stress.
2) SUPPORT
In a few years, you will face trials and battles as a man, and you will need your wife’s support. The kind of support offered not by her body, but by her brain, her hands, her spirit, her bank balance, her knowledge, and her exposure.
ASS is not the only ASSET.
Can she support you in prayer?
Support you financially?
Can she support you physically?
Support you with ideas, advice?
Can she build with you?
3) HOUSE KEEPER.
Can she be the boss at home and mobilize her husband’s resources and her own (financial and otherwise) to turn a HOUSE into a HOME?
Not a woman who goes out on Fridays to party and comes home drunk and unable to take care of her husband and children.
Not a woman whose house is always as dirty as a dump because she is lazy.
4) COOPERATION
Don’t marry a woman who won’t submit to you and cooperate with you. You’ll end up suffering from high blood pressure.
Before you propose, check.
There are women (even in the church) who hate authority, the word « submission » repels them, who are just stubborn, rebellious, bossy, and self-directed; their mentors are on Instagram.
Marry a woman like that, even if her face is thinner than an angel, her chest bigger than the Niger River, her waist curvier than a Coke bottle, and her back as wide as the Congo Basin, I’ll give you a year (if you can stand it that long), you’ll regret marrying her.
You’ll run.
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PS: I’m simply telling my brothers
« Look, but also look beyond a woman’s body and beauty. I’m not condemning anyone.
And above all, I hope you too can give her these things as you ask for them. »