ADVICE TO ALL WOMEN

Dear Woman,
Not all men are husband material.
Some are friend material.
Or boyfriends.
Or sex partners.
Others are baby daddies.
Some are husbands.
Others are fathers.
Marry a man who is a brother, a husband, and a father.
Some of you marry men who don’t belong there.
Marriage isn’t for everyone. Some men aren’t cut out to function in marriage.
Don’t let the desperation of marriage or societal pressures push you into the arms of a man who isn’t ready or suited for marriage.
Look around you; most men marry only for status.
These are the men who marry women and keep them for their mothers and fathers to care for. I’ve seen men who married women and
traveled out of the country for 5, 6, and even 7 years without coming home to see their wives.
What is this?
We shouldn’t marry in theory. Marriage should be practical. Some men are very selfish.
Believe me, a selfish man will never be a good husband. Marriage thrives on mutualism.
It’s a give-and-take situation.
Don’t marry a man because you’re pregnant by him.
Don’t marry him because he deflowered you.
Or because you’re unemployed.
Don’t marry him because you dated him for a long time.
Don’t marry him because you invested in him financially.
Marry him because you believe he’s worthy to be called your husband and the father of your unborn child. There are men everywhere, but husbands are rare. I pray for you who are not yet married:
you do not know the slavery of marriage.